Archive for February, 2015

When words lie

Posted: February 19, 2015 in Uncategorized

1. Love

Love with conditions is not love. Is unconditional love a myth? A misnomer? No. Pure love exists and it will always be without condition. Look around hard enough and you’ll see it. See the father who loves his son like the day he was born despite knowing that son causes the father much pain. See a woman who adopts into her family a person she barely knows and treats and treats that child as her own the rest of her life. See spouses who can look past diseases and bad choices and still see and love the other for who they truly are. “I’ll love you if…” and “I’ll stop loving you if…” are simply not in genuine love’s vocabulary.

2. Grace

Grace earned simply is not grace. Grace can be defined as unmerited favor. So to have to work for something that is freely given is something other than true grace. Here’s an example- Credit cards. A credit card that offers a period of time for you to pay your bill past the due date without penalty calls that a grace period. Now if you have to earn that grace period by spending a certain amount of money each month to activate their “grace period” would not be grace. It would be an incentive instead. True grace comes with no strings attached.

3. Self-esteem

Self-esteem based on how others view you is not self-esteem. Webster defined self-esteem as self-respect. The key word here is self. If one’s self-esteem is based on how others respected him/her that would be more accurately called others-respect and others-esteem. So when looking at the health of your self-esteem be sure to only use your own opinions of yourself. Your opinions may be very different from how others see you.

In conclusion I’ll add it’s not so much that words lie as it is that words are wrongly defined. Define wisely.



Posted: February 18, 2015 in Uncategorized

An old song I know says “It only takes a spark to get a fire going”, and Smokey the Bear taught us that one small mistake with fire can take down a whole forest. Fire is certainly nothing to play with. It demands attention and respect or else it will surge out of control quickly, hurting people and many things. Yet fire is a useful and necessary tool to be used for much benefit when controlled. It helps engines, gas stoves, wood burners, steel mills, and many other things beneficial. So we need fire, but we need controlled fire.
I believe that we have something very similar, in theory at least, burning within us humans. I’m talking about anger. Much like fire, anger is a useful and necessary thing. And also like fire, we need our anger or anger will harm us and others. I see us all having a spark inside of us- our hearts. That spark will quickly ignite the gasoline of anger poured poured on to it. Too much anger and you’ll see a bonfire that burns yourself and others. Too little anger you’ll have a lonely spark that anyone can come and trample on whenever they please. This makes clear how important the proper level of anger is in our lives to be healthy and unharming.
I’ve found that other emotions and rationale can be tools to manage a healthy flame in us. The following can safely diffuse a fire- understanding, compassion, love, forgiveness, putting yourself in their shoes, dismissing, and asking yourself “What good will it be to get all worked up?” work very well for me. I encourage you to give these and any other positive tools a try. A healthy level of fire within us can make life so much better. It’s so worth our time and effort.


Posted: February 16, 2015 in Uncategorized

So I realize that sometimes I enjoy movies what I can believe is too much. An example- after a movie I view as great I feel exhilarated. My emotions deep and vibrant. Brain alive.

There was a time, and a long time, where I couldn’t enjoy and get the exhilaration about reading the Bible, listening to ministry, going to church, etc.

But now it’s different. I now get my best feelings, thoughts, and everything awesome from seeking God and spending time with Him. What’s changed? My relationship with God. I, now see, had many barriers in my way of a joyful relationship with God. There was lies believed, truth u believed and often not even considered, and illness plus more. The answer was quite simple- trust and obey. Simple to state and simple to know. Hard to do with a whole lot of consistency. See I’m still human. I’m a depraved wretch without God working mightily in me. And that’s only considering sins I do. Add in truly good things I fail to do and I can honestly agree with the apostle Paul that I am the chief of sinners. I’m so far beyond helpless and hopeless without God. I am at His mercy, only He can save.

And save He does, through the work of Jesus, all those who truly call on Him. I am one of those. When you know Him you realize the best thing you can do is admit that we are the chief of sinners without Him. This makes us completely forgiven, white as snow, in Him. Confessing our need for Him is the best confession anyone can make.


Posted: February 10, 2015 in Uncategorized

Jesus loves us. Everyone. Enough said. 🙌😊

I give up is a contradiction

Posted: February 8, 2015 in Uncategorized

We’re all familiar with the phrase “I give up”. We have learned this phrase means I’m done trying and we use it to communicate that. But to say I give up really doesn’t mean to quit. To me it speaks of giving it up to God. That’s where the oxymoron part comes in. When we “give up” in the traditional sense, I say giving down is more like it. For down below is where Satan lives. To quit, to give up, is his way. What he desires for us. This giving up where you’re really giving down needs to be replaced by truly giving up- giving it to God. Like a child with a new toy we want to play with we try so very hard to put it together and make it work. We come to exhaustion and face a choice- to give up traditionally or truly. Traditional would be to move away from the toy, stop trying, and probably sulk or pout. Tell me that’s not what Satan salivates for. “I can’t do it” and “I’m helpless” are his bread and butter. But to truly give up invites your heavenly Father in. Much like a child going to his dad for help with the new toy, we are to go to Him and admit our weakness. Then, like the child, we do whatever our Father asks knowing He knows best and loves us.